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A birthday card chosen for them

Find a birthday card that feels like the person you are celebrating, whether they love a joke, a bold design or a quiet greeting.

What to write in a birthday card for a friend

Start with something you share: a running joke, a regular coffee or a day you still talk about. Then add a wish that sounds like them. These are sample messages; replace the details with your own.

Three birthday message examples

A shared adventure

“Happy birthday! I still laugh about our very optimistic attempt at that walk. Here’s to another year of good company and slightly better directions.”

An everyday friendship

“Happy birthday! Our quick coffee somehow always turns into an hour. I’m glad we keep making time for it. Hope this year brings more of the things you love.”

A short note

“Happy birthday, you. Here’s to more good books, long lunches and stories for us to share.”

Use the version that fits your friendship, then choose a birthday cover below.

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Choosing birthday cards

Think about your relationship and their taste before choosing the tone. A colleague's birthday wish can be just as thoughtful as a longer family message.

Finding your words

Start with happy birthday, then add one personal line if you want to. The card's printed sentiment can do some of the talking.

The personal writing on the right page is a sample. Change it to sound like you and keep only details that are true for your relationship.

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